Girls, What Guys Really Want you to Say in Sexts?
Sexting is an art that has to be mastered. It is a great tool for igniting the sparks in a relationship, more so long distance relationships. There is something that your boyfriend expects of you while you sext. These are the punch lines and how to express your mind in the right way, the precise way to turn him on.
To be skillful in sending the flirty messages, here are some tips to guide you while sexting your messages to your boyfriend:
- Don’t rush into sexting; first simple but sexy introductory sexting messages
Perhaps the two of you had met on a dating site and you were drawn to him due to his charming looks. You’ve got his contact but aren’t sure on how to sext him. If possible arrange for a physical meeting and develop some feelings. After the meeting and you feel something for him or have seen some signals that he’s also attracted to you, then it’s time to ignite that fire with just the right sexting messages.
To begin with be slow on the uptake. Use simple sexy introductory messages to build the sexual tension and create the anticipation in your conversation
- Describe and give example on what you intend to do to him in your next meeting
In your texts, pick out on the right adjectives then be detailed on your next course of action to him. For example, it could be phrases like, I can’t believe you made me moan like that or your words have made me very wet inside. Talk to him and explain how his actions or messages are doing magic on you.
- Be teasing in your text
During the day be teasing in your sex messages. For example, you can say I keep thinking of what you did to me last night or just the thought of you turns me on and ……still you can wrap yourself in a towel and send him that picture saying am all gearing up for your coming tonight
- Send him a short video porn clip of what you intend to do to him when he comes.
Choose your timing well and inspire him in advance with the video clip, saying… this is how am going to punish you today. Or it just a picture illustrating a new sex position to try out coupled with the message this is how am going to serve you today. It will do wonders to him
- A text talking about the sex dream you had
Let him wake up to your fantasy or dream like wish; I just saw you and me in my dream last night. I just dreamt of you last night and when I woke up I was all wet. Just the thought that you have been thinking of him and the dream is enough to turn him on.
- A text reflecting on the past sweet moment
Just highlight on some passionate moment you shared. It could be the sex you had in unexpected place or moment that turned out to be great. The sexting ideas could be numerous; perhaps how he caught you unexpectedly in the bathroom, the office or in the car when he had all dressed up and ready for work
- Use hanging texts
The best sexting messages to send your boyfriend would be one that requires him to fill in some gap or demands an answer. Such kind of texts will enable the flirting to continue since his reply would be called upon. For example, it could be a question like can you guess the color of my pant now?
- Revealing pictures
One of the best sexting pics to send to your boyfriend is those relating to your nudity. For instance, it could be the slightly revealed boobs or just you in one of his favorite lingerie. In the snaps make sure you have something to stir up his attention on the picture. It could be strategically positioned thighs or hands, which is hard to ignore. But if you suspect the pictures might leak out disguise your face or don’t take a full nudity snap.
- Sext him at key moments
Send out sexy messages or sexting emojis at special moments to your man. For instance, it could be when he is out in a meeting or relaxing with his friends.
- A night out plus great sex all planned out
Surprise him with a text informing him of the planned night out for the two of you, and choose his favorite café. Then explain how you are going to tie him to your bed and ravage him till morning. In his mind, he’ll think of the perfect plan all laid out and spiced up with a hot sex thereafter.
The particular sexting messages to send to your boyfriend should be the ones that leave him anticipating how it will be when you meet. The text should also create a feeling that you think and long for him, he’ll then even fake a reason at the workplace, just to create some time to be with you.