When two people are in love they can never lack what to talk about. Igniting a conversation becomes very easy. The two of you are just from a hot date and the chemistry is just up there. May be you have retired to bed but still think of your boyfriend. Sexting then becomes inevitable. Whether you are young or of age one; there are common things of interests to when you fall for someone. For example pictures of young naked girls are quite erotic.
Most people rush into sex chat. The fact that a girl has given you her number doesn’t guarantee you to sext her anything you wish. Most people who rush to sext their girlfriends or boy friends do make the following mistakes:
- Sending a sext message to married person or any one in another relationship
Sending of flirty or erotic messages to someone, who is in another relationship, is a big mistake. Soon the conversation may turn erotic or very personal. Why would you wish to receive images of young naked girls engaged in other relationships? Such communication endangers even stable relationships.
- Sexting while intoxicated
Chatting while drunk, top the list of common mistakes made by partners in adult chat. While intoxicated you aren’t in complete control of your mind. You might end up composing weird texts. Such messages might be so funny that your partner might be tempted to post them on her social page. Intoxication might sway the healthy sex chat to horrible regrettable mistakes.
- Hitting the send button without double checking
You could be dying to chat with this new girl. Alternatively, you could in a haste to reply to her message that you forget to double check your content or recipient. For example in your haste to send the message to “Mary” it might end up to “Mum.” Take an extra second to spell check your message.
- Incorporating too many sexting emoji and compliments
You have to learn to distinguish between the genuine compliment and exceeding flattery. For example, you might have met a girl and haven’t known her deeply. If you then start to flatter her with too many compliments in the name of great sexting messages, you will surely lose your beautiful lady. On the other hand accompanying your text with a sexting emoji isn’t a bad idea. However, over stuffing spoils the broth of your text or might lead to the misinterpretation of your message
- Showering her with texts or pleading for a response
You have composed what you think is a great flirty message. You have even included some sexting pics to deliver your message. But when you send it to your girlfriend, you get no response. You decide to follow with a second message. Still, you receive no feedback. Should you send another text? Certainly no! She is silent for a reason. Flooding her phone with more messages won’t guarantee you any response. Wait for her response and don’t beg for it. It will help you determine whether she is interested in a chat or not.
- Sexting someone you haven’t gone to bed with or you barely know
Ideally, exchanging erotic messages should be between those who have been intimate and find great pleasure in each other. Such couples have known each other’s sexual desires and fetishes. Armed with such knowledge, they, therefore, have a wealth of sexting ideas to explore.
When you barely know each other, you can’t tell what turns your partner off or on. You are bound to piss her off in the name of teasing her.
- Chatting with an enemy or someone you don’t trust
Adult chatting involves the exchange of flirty messages and personal photos. For this reason, never engage in a steamy erotic chat with a stranger. Suppose your communication was not through a snapchat sexting? Your enemy can use your personal photos against you; blackmailing you or sending it around the social network.
The above mistakes can ruin even the most promising relationship. It might also deter you from forging meaningful relationships later in life. Choose your sexting partner prudently.