5 Ways to Start a Sexting Conversation with your Boyfriend

Sexting is thrilling. Exploring the fantasies and teases makes the practice exhilarating. However what if you have no clues on how to set off or drift a normal conversation into an adult chat? Perhaps you have waited for your boyfriend to begin a sexy conversation for too long. You have some desires you would wish to ask in a playful tone and watch his response?

Find below tips and sexting examples that will help you:

  1. Be brave and take the lead

Igniting a sex chat might be tricky. First, you may lack the confidence or you aren’t sure of how your man might react. However, the first step involves choosing the right moment when you are in the right mood and actually feel an urge to be with him. Any man would feel overwhelmed with excitement knowing his girlfriend finds him desirable or sexy. A motivation will give you the creativity to compose texts to turn him on in minutes. Simply express your desire for him and watch his reply.

You can say something like

I’m craving for something right now….and it’s you between my thighs!

I love it when you make me scream like an animal!

  1. Set the right mood for the conversation

For the initial moment, don’t open all at once, bluntly about your desires. However strong your desires are, refrain from doing so. You first have to bring him into the mood for such a sexy conversation. For example, you are all alone in bed late at night. Your mind wonders off to the first time you got laid by him. Send him a text like;

Since what you did to me that first time……I can’t get you off my mind. Just the thought of it turns me on and……

I can’t get to sleep, all I can think about is last night…it makes me so sleepless

Such a text will take his mind of the excitement you shared. This then sets the mood for a kik sexting.

  1. Send him suggestive pictures accompanied by descriptive messages

By default, men are turned on pretty fast by visuals. The best sexting messages to send to your boyfriend, that’s a definite turn on should involve some sexting pics. Assuming you had given him a good treat the last night, he’ll be looking forward to the next blow job.

Get a shot of your boob’s cleavage and send it to him with the following texts;

All this awaits you tonight dear!

Do what you want with them…they are all yours tonight….

Alternatively, you can send him your picture, with your thighs slightly uncovered. A better idea is shot of you starting to undress. Spice up the picture with the following texts;

Why don’t you come over and we’ll………

You want to see more of this..… Come over

See am all getting ready for ….will you come?

Such messages will give him a hint that you are longing to be with him. He won’t easily turn down such an offer

  1. Play the Guess game

May be you have taken a shower and not yet dressed up. You want him to visualize you in this state; make him long for you. Why not a text like;

I’m just from the bathroom. I don’t know what panty to wear, which one would you prefer?

I’m on my way to your office…. If you can guess what I’m wearing beneath the skirt I’ll give it to you there ….

I’m making work easier for you tonight….guess what? I have nothing between my….

  1. Ask a bold, naughty question, statement or complement

You want his mind to go dirty with you? Here are a few sexting ideas that will do;

I was just wondering… how do you want me to serve you tonight?

If you find me spread up on your bed…. naked ……where would you touch me first?

Last night performance was matchless….. I’ve never done it like that before… when are we doing it again?


The above sexting ideas tell him that he can have his way with you. Which man wouldn’t be crazy about a woman opening up for him, absolutely loyal?

However, the above sexting examples are only a guide. What works for one couple may not work for the other. It’s all about understanding what turns on your man. Test the waters first if he is in the right mood before plunging into kik sexting. Remind him of some wonderful times you had together. Make him feel desired, and for sure he’ll feel like a king and reward in the most wonderful and thrusting way.